Today I was grumpy. I admit it. I ate food I should not have eaten last night, and suffered many ill effects. My children, who also ate the food they should not have, also suffered ill efects. They were a bit, well, let's say emotional today.
It's much more difficult to be cheerful when I don't feel well. Feeling sick or being in pain always gives me a greater appreciation for what my husband endures daily without complaint. But I'm not allowed to be grumpy when I don't feel well. I am called to be thankful and joyful and loving regardless of how I feel.
So I drank lots of water, took a few supplements and drugs, turned on the music, and hugged. I hugged my children; one by one I grabbed them and hugged them. Even my oldest, who has never really been one for hugging, hugged me back with enthusiasm; and my son, the perpetual hug addict, was thrilled and wouldn't let go. I hugged my middle children and smiled at them. I hugged my baby.
And I was amazed at how the chain grew. The more I hugged, the happier I felt. The more I hugged, the more they hugged me back, over and over again. I started kissing my children, and they began to laugh with me, so I hugged them even more. When my husband came home, I hugged him and told him how much I appreciated him. I felt even better. By giving away affection, despite how sick and generally awful I felt, I received a greater blessing.
I had considered calling it a sick day and going back to bed, but I am glad I didn't. I'm glad I gave away hugs, because I got a blessing. A wonderful blessing. The blessing of love.
2 comments:
I walked into the powder room tonight and saw Richard's retainers there on the sink...he is supposed to be sleeping with them in....so I went to his room an woke him gently...this is my almost 15 year old son. he pulled me down to lay next to him half asleep, but he wanted mama for a minute...I needed that blessing today more than ever.
Thanks for sharing, I think I will start tomorrow with the hugs and just maybe things will turn around.
Please do, Tonia! They help like nothing else! Wish I could give you one.:-)
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